Founder and run 心魂繩縛(柔術)道場. One of Hong Kong BDSM leaders, together with other leaders monthly run munch, female munch, naughty munch, BDSM play party, and Shibari Salon.
Male, Master, 183 tall, 78 kg, work in professionals of finance capacity, athletic build, good body shape, a licensed professional Thai boxing and Jujitsu 柔術 instructor, certified four Dan of jujitsu black belt柔術黑帶4段and yoga practitioner. Also is a positive thinking, mature, honest and friendly person.
BDSM and Shibari is an art and deeply connect between people and people's body, heart and soul. Love giving outdoor trainings to the submissive, especially in the super sport car (space restriction with rope bondage in car race), rope bondage in uninhibited islands, sea travelling.
Happy meet up friends and hunger to share with mature and experience friends. I take serious in long term relationship, one night love and merely for sex that does not suit me.
BDSM first showed up to my mind that was 23 years ago, I did read a lot of papers and hunger to learn and try privately. My view about BDSM is not only connection, passion, sensation, or transcendence but also deeply down into hollow of heart and soul [心魂].
In respect of Shibari, I practise Bakushi. I learn it and practice regularly.
Undeniable, both BDSM and Shibari connection is deeply related with human's love, emotion, heart and soul. If both heart and soul are connected, the intensity is far more satisfying rather than relying on just the physical.
Act as a Top who is walking in and out of various souls realizing love is pain, deeper love causes deeper pain, but true love does not hurt and pain because it has no ego.
If achieve this, the soul views life and death as one, whenever it is, optimistic as one, one should be unmoved by success or failure.
BDSM, Shibari 's prelude
In heart and soul aspect, I am enchanted with psychologist Carl Gustav Jung, philosopher Immanuel Kant, philosophy of Buddhism, (ego in connection with respect, trust, view, connection) that all help me to integrate with the playing.
BDSM, Bakushi
(Instead of reincarnation, if you take psychologist Carl Gustav Jung's view about collective unconscious, ANIMUS and ANIMA, each person had inherited all humans', below result is same. We are all the same.
It is a well all up by Valraen, without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.
My heart and soul with my partners' connection set out below:
If reincarnation really exist, it seems dark and empty at the moment universe beginning.
I identify you (bottom, submissive, slave, play partner..........), real percept your existence. Knowing rope or other forms within your soul that only is a connection. Through this connection, I walk into your world from each hairs descending down deep into your soul. Percept your feeling, conscious knowing your each step, process, pleading, happiness and liberating
I feel deep veneration for this consciousness.
Perhaps, you and I are same, walking through various stages, breakthrough each hurdle.
Each relationship causes me realize each partner that having crossed the vast ocean. Such experience has planted the seed inside my soul's hollow. Walking through each love's hair, skin, body, mind, heart and soul.......
Realize all your tear, pain, sob and then free from bondage. What are these purposes, its exclusive purpose is for the object happiness, then your heart is full of pleasant.
Each moment of experience, it is pressure, anxious, pleading, acceptance and setting free yourselves. I realize each your mental state is difference because the superficial difference of culture, ideology, faith, race, color, wealth, and education. However walk into deeper, all are same. You are repeatedly pursuing pain and joy, get caressing and healing through rope bondage or other means. Then it is repeatedly again.
From all your body movements, I am able to listen whined from deep inside your soul hollow through the ropes, I understand all your begging for others acceptance and resonation. Regrettably, all your effort make you disappointed, dismay, helpless. Perhaps some in your mundane are not in such mental state because subconscious matters you have forgotten but your past all has planted deep in your soul at subconscious part.........
We may not be in same age and era. Perhaps when you read my writings, I am not alive. (the form can be in Christianity or others). It depends on your era and age.
Please remember your efforts, repeatedly efforts. It doesn't matter it is small or huge. It is impossible for you fail to live up to this gift that you have been given. You stand your ground, do what you are meant to do, and completed your mission, you will have no regrets in this life journey. Your effort in this universe that had happened. Such occurred happening even though God cannot wipe them off.
This moment, inside the rope, your souls' are shouting that have told all your past and all I have listened.
I close my eyes, you are same, percepting your body, hair, sweat, tear meaning ..........
Whether reincarnation is really existence, it is not a matter, because your feelings that are mine, I realize your anger and dismay that you are misunderstood, are slandered, are ridiculed, are forgotten........
Now I do not need eyes, ear, nose, tongue and body to communicate with all, (all rope's techniques are forgotten). It is beyond all five skandhas because the appearance form is emptiness. Now I walk over appearance form. I can purely communicate with your heart and soul. It is only you and I, it is silence.
I am you. I am inside you..........
Past experience that is expressed in rope has gone with wind. Now it is painless, pleasant, set free from bondage. You are real free..........
Spiritual and heart connections, dominant control force to Bottom, Bondage, Breathing control, Embracing, Pinching, Scratching, Biting, .................. Liberation of hearts.
